A Tribute To Katharyne M Sullivan, MD
Thanks to everyone for their kind words, wishes, and prayers over the past year as Kathy battled Leukemia. Kathy went to heaven on Aug 11th after a valiant fight. What do you say when you have lost your best friend, wife, and life partner of over 25 years? Because Kathy was a Psychiatrist, it was tough for her to get on any social media. So Kathy has no Facebook page. I just wanted to share with you who she was if you did not know her, or did not know her very well. First, she was the most incredible person I have ever met. I am not just saying that because she was my wife but because of all the people she has helped over the years. I feel like the world lost a very special person. I met Kathy when she was an undergraduate at the University of Rochester. Her smile and her warmth captivated me immediately. We eventually got married after she graduated 1987. With all our worldly possessions (mostly wedding gifts) in the back of our Chevy Citation, we began our adventure. I found a job in Massachusetts where I had been studying and she went to work at a Daycare Center, because she wanted to help kids. But she decided to set her sights higher and started applying to Medical Schools so she could help more people. She was accepted at a number of Medical schools but she chose the University of Buffalo, and it was an excellent school but more importantly it was because their tuition was something we could afford. She graduated from Medical School in 1992 and had to choose a specialty. She was debating between Surgery (which she loved) and Psychiatry (which she also loved). She decided that Psychiatry would be a family friendly career path as we wanted to start having children. Kathy completed her Child and Adolescent Psychiatry Residency at the University of Rochester in 1997 and started her career. I convinced Kathy to move to the better climate of the Virginia and Maryland area, where I was born and raised. As a board certified Child and Adolescent Psychiatrist, Kathy started her career at the Behavioral Health Services, Washington County Health Systems in Hagerstown MD. Kathy really enjoyed helping very sick children. The stories she would tell about some of these children would break the hearts of the most hardened person, and I could tell it took its toll on her at times. But these children needed help, and Kathy wanted to apply her skills to deliver that help. We moved to Leesburg in 2001 and she became the Child and Adolescent Psychiatrist at Graydon Manor (a children's home) where she helped more children. In 2005 Kathy decided to start her own practice called Children and Families First where she began to treat not only children, but families and adults. Most recently Kathy joined Grafton Integrated Health Network as their new Chief Medical Officer. She was looking forward to this new chapter in her career. She started working there Sept 30th, 2011. We were in Toronto for Conference she was attending in October, 2011 when she started to get winded from walking 1 block. This was not normal for Kathy who was an avid runner and had completed a Triathlon. She got a blood test in late October and was immediately admitted to the Hospital. We found out she had a kind of Leukemia called AML on November 4th, 2001. After being admitted to Johns Hopkins we found out it was the "bad kind" of AML which is rarely survivable. But Kathy battled. She went through 2 rounds of chemo and received a bone marrow transplant on March 30th, 2012. She spent over a 100 days in the hospital, but she had an incredible drive, and an uplifting spirit. Her goal has to run a half marathon with her brother David in November. By the way David was a 100% match bone marrow donor. In my mind, she had already run 3 marathons, 2 rounds of chemo and the bone marrow transplant. We found out the Leukemia was back in July, 2012, and this time it was even more aggressive. We decided to travel and take our family to New Orleans where we visited the Blessed Father Seelos Shrine and celebrated our 25th Anniversary. Kathy connect