If he were here, he’d probably tell us to quit crying, pour a drink, and fire up the barbecue. While our hearts ache with loss, let’s honor him the way he’d want—by remembering the laughter, the adventures, and the incredible man he was.
Mark had a way of being there—always. Whether he was teaching CPR, dropping everything to build a handrail for Bruce, shoveling snow for neighbors or caring for our dad with compassion, he showed his love through action. He was the guy you could count on, no matter what.
Some of my favorite memories with Mark are from our camping trips, where we played fierce—often ridiculous—games of drunken spoons. And then there was that ill-fated winter drive to the mountains, where we found ourselves sliding off the road. While I was gripping the wheel in panic, Mark and our dog were in the backseat, screaming and clutching each other for dear life. It’s moments like those that remind me just how much he filled this world with humor and heart.
Mark took great joy in making barbecue, and I swear you could taste the love in every bite. He loved riding his Harley. I like to think that right now, he’s riding a celestial highway, wind in his face, free from pain at last.
I miss hearing him say, “Hey, Sis.” I miss knowing he’s just a call away. But I’m grateful—grateful that he’s no longer suffering, grateful that he left us with so many memories, and grateful to have had a brother like him.
Mark wouldn’t want us to sit here in sorrow. He’d want us to raise a glass, tell stories, and remember him with joy. So let’s do just that—let’s celebrate the incredible, irreplaceable, one-of-a-kind man that was my brother.
Ride free, Mark. We’ll miss you always.