Death date: May 23, 2019
Sheila Graham Heider Longtime Loudoun resident Sheila Graham Heider, 81, died May 23rd at Inova Loudoun Hospital at Lansdowne. Born in Tacoma, Washington, to Elynore Ulrika and Ivan Charles Mikalaski, Sheila Heider later moved t Read Obituary
I'm writing for my 95 year old mother, Dot Schneider, who along with my dad, Fred, knew Sheila and Al from the nursery community in Pr. George's County, Md. My parents always enjoyed good times with them personally and professionally. To this day my mother shares stories and memories of Sheila and Al. She is so sad for your loss.
Janis, Judy, and JoAnn I know how much you three will miss your dear Sheila! I think back to a million years ago and to the tiny produce stand on Riggs Road, yep that long ago, Holly was just a little girl!!!!!! I would go up to the stand to visit with Janis, Sheila would drop by every day just to say hello and to check on her baby sister! I remember her as warm, loving and funny and that she had your Mom's glorious smile!!!!! Treasure you memories of her and your wonderful cruise the four of you took!
So sorry for this loss Janis! Please tell Judy and JoAnn I send my love!
Chris Rizer
To all the Heiders but especially my friend Heather -- Thank you for sharing your Mom with me and my family. I remember so fondly talking horses and children with her and enjoying food around your table. Sheila was generous and wise. What a grand woman! We are grateful we can come share in the celebration of her amazing life with your all this morning. -- Love Di and Family
I'm thinking of all of you and wishing I could be there. Lots of love to you. Memories of Sheila and her love for all of you bring a warm smile to my face. --Nana
Sheila
She hired me as her pet groomer! Many years ago, and we build our friendship.
We always had a good story too talk about her animal and kids.
Not too long ago she was so worried about her sister and she opened up and talked to me about it
I was her sounding board!
So every time I came to groom Ditto I would ask about her sister. She would tell me she was doing much better I was so happy for her.
She had a warm and giving heart
I'll miss her smile and warmth
I was introduced to Sheila and Albert by way of teaching all 4 of the twins at Simpson Middle School. I knew that these girls had a wonderful family life because they were so special. In 1981 and 1982, I was getting divorced and I needed help. Sheila was right there for me even though she really didn’t know me. I have always had a special place in my heart for Kristin, Katey, Heather, and Lisa....And of course for Sheila and Albert. I felt it an honor to know this family.
In addition to being an Awesome neighbor and Amazing Woman in her own right , Shelia gave my Daughter a chance to prove her Mettle at an early age . She mentored her and gave her the courage to pursue her endeavor in the Horse World . I feel sure that Shelia and Al are having a wonderful reunion !
Shelia was an amazing lady. She did many things. I taught Lisa and Kristen and enjoyed them both. You have my deepest sympathy. Cecelia Cole
Albert and Shelia bought the family farm in Lovettsville back in 1970. Then they were known as "those people from Washington". But what impact they had on Loudoun! I will always hold a special place in my heart for the whole Heider family. It is very seldom I utter the term "Lady". Shelia was a very, very special Lady. The world was made a much better place with Shelia and Albert in it. Rest in peace as you walk among your flowers and trees.
