Even in sickness, Harry had a way of making me smile.
As a caregiver, schedules can change in an instant. One evening, while on my way to an event, I was called in to cover a colleague’s shift and care for Harry. We sat together at the kitchen table—he was eating, and I was making small talk—when he suddenly looked up and said, “Were you on your way to a date? You look like it.”
I smiled and assured him that I wasn’t. Still, he gently apologized, concerned that his need for care might have disrupted my plans.
In that moment, it was clear who Harry was. Even while facing his own challenges, he remained thoughtful, attentive, and deeply considerate of others. He noticed the little things. He made people feel seen. And somehow, even in difficult circumstances, he brought lightness and warmth.
Though I didn’t know him for long, it was unmistakable—Harry was one of the good ones.
He will be deeply missed by all who had the privilege of knowing him.